Yes there are varying degrees of anonymoty on this site, but for some reason (or motive) you chose the most extreme.

For the record, I am not only a cold-hearted friend, I am THE cold-hearted boyfriend. Believe it or not, Ms. SLeopard and I have talked long and hard about faithfullness, albeit in private. For me to comment about it here would be extremely tasteless in my own assessment. I don't believe drunken online ramblings are nescessarily a "cry for help", and I certainly don't remember "crying over poetry" myself (can you provide an example?)

(Now I'm going to go ahead and do a bit of what I just said I wouldn't do here...) SL is a wonderful girlfriend, and I love her very much. I continue to marvel at how well we fit together more each day. So if she has some issues with jealousy I really don't mind. Recent experience has taught me that it is much better if partners care about these things than if they don't. All I really need to do is live up to my own standards, which I intend to do.

You want a cry for help? Go listen to the Cure.